Very cool, if true

Not so much a counter-argument as just to note that you've added an extra criterion to 'you shouldn't quibble [when] it's clear that they're talking about a common but not universal tendency in men, and correcting them is likely taking away from a valid grievance'.

I was pretty sure about what your answer was going to be, I just wondered whether you would justify it by (a) claiming that there were no common but not universal tendencies in women, (b) claiming that there are no valid grievances about such tendencies in women, or (c) bringing in another criterion to distinguish between when you should and shouldn't quibble about valid grievances based on common, but not universal tendencies.

I was pretty sure you wouldn't got for (a), I wondered if you might go for (b), but you chose (c) instead. Noted.